November Blog … 29,000 10 to 17 year old Foster Boys are looking for help every year.

FAAT CATS helps Foster Teenagers find homes and a life

If you have run a shop for any amount of time, finding and keeping good help is always near the top of the list. At ever class I taught in 2017 I included a slide that spoke to the plight of American foster children. First the chilling numbers. Over ½ million American kids have been removed from their homes for their own safety. 130,000 have had gone through, or are in the process, of legally being freed to adopt. In other words they need a new forever family. 29,000 of these kids will never get adopted and will age out of the foster care system at eighteen to twenty one without being attached to a family of their own. 29,000 American kids (per year) will not have a family to spend vacations, holidays or their birthdays with. Those are the facts, as sad as they are. Each year it gets worse. You can help.

When Deb and I found out in 1992 that we could not conceive our own children, we were sad, mad, frustrated and lost. After some real soul searching and an education in all types of adoption, it was clear to us there were kids in our area that really needed parents, a home, love, family, discipline, and a future. We didn’t need to go outside the USA to help a child find a home, there were plenty right here.

At the same time Deb and I were building the Massachusetts ASA chapter, we were also preparing a home for what would be two foster-adoptions. Mike was first at age 5. We took him in as our own, adopted Mike and started our family. Will was next at age 15. Now the boys are 26 and 32. They are doing well after some very rough times. It was more than worth it. We didn’t need baby pictures; we just wanted to be parents. Deb and I knew we could do a good job.

At Van Batenburg’s Garage, Mike and Will helped with trash, clean up, worked on company vehicles, and did some computer work. Mike and I started work on an old Honda Accord that will be his later on. Working with my sons added more than just a cleaner shop. It helped them learn, helped them develop skills they will need to succeed in the real world, a not so nice place at times. Both of my sons know how tough the world can be and learned at much too young of an age. What they need now is to learn survival and success skills. Fixing cars can do that.

If you have been employing young people, you have been dealing with some bad behaviors. You already know what to do keep young people in line. I have an idea! Why not learn more about the foster teenagers that live in your home town, visit with them and offer them a job, a future and maybe even a home. There is more to life than work. Why not make your career a place for foster kids too?

Craig Van Batenburg

P.S. Why do we work with boys 10 to 17. At that age almost all of these boys will never get adopted. Girls gets adopted at any age.